If you have worked with me in couples therapy, it's likely that you have heard me refer to marriage as an "Oreo" cookie. In my metaphor of the Oreo, I have said that you and your beloved spouse are simply two seperate cookies, that are connected by the creamy filling of two very important ingredients in your marriage......fun and good sex. I imagine you are now thinking, "what the hell does that mean?". Well, it means that similiar to an Oreo cookie without the creamy filling